C H A P T E R
O N E: How sex works
- Safety: The
Rosetta Stone of Psychological Life
- Guilt, Worry,
and Inhibition
- Guilt, Ruthlessness,
and Sexual Excitement
- Shame, Helplessness,
and Sexual Excitement
- Identification,
Transference, and Sexual Excitement
- Solving the
Problems of Identification and Transference With Sexual Fantasies
- Overlapping
Fantasies
C H A
P T E R T W O: Sexual Fantasies as Antidotes to Guilt
and Worry
C H A
P T E R T H R E E: Sexual Fantasies as Antidotes to Shame
and Rejection
- The Story
of Esther
- The Man on
the Bottom: The Case of Glenn
- Robbing the
Cradle: The Case of Otto
- Seducing
the Powerful: The Case of Amanda
C H A
P T E R F O U R: From the Conventional to the Bizarre:
Interpreting Sexual Fantasies
- Sadomasochistic
Fantasies
- Masochism
and Sexual Arousal
- Golden and
Brown Showers
- Men Wearing
Women's Panties
- Diapered
and Treated Like a Baby
- Asphyxiation
Fantasies
- Dominance
and Sexual Arousal
- Rape Fantasies
- Master/Slave
Relationships
- Incest Fantasies
- Multiple
Partners
- Gang Rape
- Exhibitionism:
Photographing and Videotaping Sex
- Body Types
and Sexual Arousal
- Gay Men and
Sexual Arousal in Heterosexual Women
C H A
P T E R F I V E: Sexual Pleasure and Boredom In Relationships
- The Natural
Decline of Sexual Interest
- Intimacy
and Sexual Ruthlessness
- The Good,
the Bad, and the Ugly: Pathogenic Beliefs and Sexual Compatibility
- "The
Good": The Case of Mark and Betsy
- "The
Bad": The Case of Jim and Laura
- "...
And the Ugly": The Case of Rob and Nicole
- The Problem
of the "Good Wife"
C H A
P T E R S I X: The
Role of Sexual Fantasies in Psychotherapy
- Shame, Self-Acceptance,
and Sexual Fantasies in Psychotherapy
- The Role
of Pathogenic Beliefs in Psychotherapy
- Safety, Testing,
and Change in Psychotherapy
- Mechanisms
of Change of Psychotherapy
- Sexual Fantasies
are Difficult to Change
C H A
P T E R S E V E N: The
Social Meaning of Sexual Fantasies
- Blaming the
Parents and the Abuse Excuse
- Gender Differences
in Sexual Fantasy
- "Wham,
Bam, Thank You Ma'am"--The Psychology of Objectification
- Will You
Still Love Me Tomorrow--Pathogenic Beliefs and the Idealization
of Romantic Love in Women
- The Personal
Finally Meets the Political
T H E F U T U R E O F S E X: Concluding Reflections and Unanswered Questions
- Private
Fantasies and Sexual Behavior
- Cybersex:
An Adaptive Illusion or Dangerous Addiction
- Will There
Be Sexual Fantasies After the Revolution?
- The Value
of Understanding Sexual Fantasies
- The Emperor's
New Clothes and the Meaning of Sexual Fantasy
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